2021.10.18 18:10 roommateventing2021 I just have to vent
Ok. So this is more of a venting session than anything because I(25f) just need to get this off my chest. I seriously dislike my roommates. I have 2 other roommates(19f and 21f). We share a 3 bedroom apartment in student living. I met my first roommate a month before we moved in together while I was living in a different building in the same complex. We got along really well in passing and we both had dogs so thought it'd be good to move in together to make sure we didn't get stuck with other random bad people. It started off great, we would go shopping with each other, plan decor for the holidays and all that good stuff and I was genuinely excited to move in with her. However, red flags started popping up when on the day I moved in she didn't want to help me move and "wanted to take her time with her day." I chalked it up to her just not wanting to move and I didn't really mind cuz it was a favor and I understood if she didn't want to help. But then the sketchy shit starts, she planned her whole moving day based on the day that I had off work so that I would help her move. So I ended up moving her stuff, and mind you she lived on the 3rd floor, I lived on the first. Again, I didn't really mind and I was willing to over look it as a gesture of good faith. Then we moved in together and shit went down hill within the week. I noticed she was a complete slob. I'm talking sink filled to the top with her dishes for weeks at a time. The smell would be awful and she would just keep putting dishes in. When she would throw stuff in the trash, she would leave food residue all over the lid and not ever clean it. She would constantly leave her stuff lying around all over the common areas, even when I would mention that she should try to pick it up because my puppy might chew it up. She would leave lights on and doors open all the time. The first two weeks we lived together she would lock the deadbolt in the middle of the day and lock me out of the apartment, but the eventually started to "forget" to lock the back door at night when we would all go to sleep. Then, I started to notice that she was starting to use all of my shit without asking me. She would use my dishes when she would run out of hers and then leave them in the sink dirty for days. She would use my paper plates, foil, laundry detergent, dog food, etc without ever even asking me or ever saying thank you. So I started keeping all of my stuff in my room so she couldn't use it. Then I noticed when I would come back from work a roll of toilet paper was missing, or the dog treats I used for my puppy were missing a few (like in a pack of 6 that I just opened, some would be missing that I didn't use.) Keep in mind, this girl doesn't have a job and her parents pay for literally everything she has (rent, phone, car, groceries, spending money, all of it) so I'm frustrated that she feels entitled to use my stuff when I have to pay for my things (I pay for all of my stuff, no parental support) and she doesn't even offer to replace my stuff when she uses it, or doesn't even say thank you. I also never told her that she could use my things to this extent. She acts like she's entitled to it. But, me trying to be a good roomie and not let it bother me too much would buy her light bulbs for her room, and give her batteries when she needed some etc. Basically, if she did ask and I had it available, I would share with her. The first month that we lived together we developed a cleaning schedule and for the most part she did her "best." But it was soon obvious that her "cleaning" was the bare minimum, and she even admitted that herself. So much so that you could never tell if she cleaned because it literally looked the same before and after. I tried not to be too disgruntled by it, but I am a neat person, so I like things to be neat, orderly and clean. Basically, if someone would walk into my apartment I wouldn't want to feel embarrassed about how gross it was. But I understand I can't make people be as clean as I am, and so I let it go after mentioning it the first few times. Then we got our third roommate after a month passed. She was really cool at first, and all three of us got along well. All three of us planned stuff to do for holidays and would sit around and watch movies and overall have a really fun time. But shortly after the third roommate moved in, she and I would get to talking and we would have conversations about how the second roommate was so unclean and how she was the messiest of us all but never cleaned the apartment or took out the trash. I foolishly thought that this common ground I had with the third roommate was something that we bonded over. Keep in mind, it was more of venting our frustrations but it wasn't something that we ever planned to gang up on the other roommate about. Then I noticed all of a sudden they would go do things together and not mention it to me, or invite me even when it was something we all talked about doing. I tried not to be upset about this because again, I understand I don't have to be apart of anything they do, I just felt left out because it was obvious they didn't want to include me and I wasn't understanding what I did wrong that they didn't want to be around me. Then I noticed that when they were home, they would go into one of their rooms, close the door, and whisper to each other for a while. Now I'm a girl, so that immediately raised a flag for me because I can tell when people are gossiping. What tripped me off about it was that this went on for days, and I noticed that the third roommate became more distant whenever I would see her. So one night I confronted them and I asked if either one of them needed to say anything to me, because I really wanted the opportunity to address whatever it was that had them talking about me, and I'm all about tying to address my behavior if it was something I did. The third roommate said "it wasn't her place to talk" and the second roommate said she was taking a test and she would talk later. She never came to talk that night so I went to bed. Now it's the next day and so far she hasn't said anything about it but I will update when she does. I think maybe it because I'm older and I have less patience for beating around the bush, but I rubs me the wrong way that they are acting so secretive and won't just tell me what's wrong if it's an ongoing issue that I'm causing. Both of these girls are confrontational, so it's not that they are scared to say something, they just don't. I hate living in a situation where everything started out great and then all of a sudden things have changed (for a reason they won't share) and now I don't know how to act them or what to say around these people. Anybody have any advice?
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The work they do is just amazing, I can't imagine playing PoE without the PoB. And I use it very often, not just when new league is around.
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I wish I could donate money to the guys as a thank you, but I live in a low income country and that's not possible right now, otherwise I would be in the top 5 supporters for sure, I hope someday I will be able to do that.
But for now, I can just use words, and I wish all the best to the people who sacrifice their own time to make the game easier for the rest of us. They don't need to do it, but they choose to do so. Thank you for all you do.
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