[MI] Non-Custodial Parent Wants to Move to Be W/ GF

2021.12.03 22:36 NoIntern4632 [MI] Non-Custodial Parent Wants to Move to Be W/ GF

I have a dilemma and need advice.
My ex and I shared a 2-year-old child together. We were together a decade. He cheated multiple times before and this time, he left me with his side chick. She resides in CA and just got recently divorced with custody in CA. My ex sued me for custody. He requested 90/365 overnights and joint legal custody. I obliged. However, I was hesitant at first because he has been adamant about relocating to CA to be with his GF (now fiance). I didn't want to go through another FOC if he wanted to make amends to the custody within the year.
My ex got engaged and he wants to relocate. Here are some of the issues that I have:
- My ex made all sorts of excuses to not discuss amending custody. There were two times that I almost got him to amend the custody. I gave him my blessing to move. I asked for full legal/physical custody with visitation rights. He would not work with me. Then all of a sudden, he filed a motion to modify parenting time and child support.
- My ex has missed 1-2 pick-up days per month. He has missed 20 days from the 90 days. He has failed to notify me or work out with me when he missed those days. He would rather go on vacation with his GF than pick up our child. I did not let FOC know of this because no one told me that I needed to. I've been documenting them though.
- My ex stated that he got a job in CA. But according to his motion, he's moving to be with now fiance and her two (2) minor children. My ex's attorney switched up the reason for moving when my attorney reached out. His attorney stated that it was for a job. My attorney asked for clarification on the job. Per his attorney, my ex got approved to work remotely. My attorney stated that my ex has established his own set of rules in terms of where and how he works. We need more clarity about what remote really means for his company.
- My ex has made financial threats on me and stated that if I do not accept his terms (summer visitations and holidays), then he will take me to court. I have generously offered him either every other summer or split summers with once-a-month visitations. But no holidays (except Father's Day), since he does not celebrate holidays. He declined my offer. Anything that comes out of my mouth, he treats it as trash and will only listen if it's from a 3rd party.
- His parents have strong bonds with our child. They do not know English and depend on my ex for translation. If my ex relocates, they will move too. Although they are not a party in the suit, this will affect the mental and emotional well-being of our child because he won't get to see his grandparents as often as he used to.
TW: The following contains a series of domestic abuse.
So, the dilemma is this. I have the power to contest his move because his remote position does not require that he works on-site in CA. I feel like I've been way too forgiving and have tried many attempts to make co-parenting work, but he has made it so difficult because he has a grudge against me. He had a psychotic break and abused me even in front of our child. He made two threats about murdering me. If he stays, I fear that there's a chance that he might have another psychotic break.
If I let him move, I might dodge the bullet of getting murdered. However, our child will not see his dad and his grandparents until the summer. I do not have family here and taking away the people that are closed to him, I'm not sure how I would be able to help our child heal.
So, in the best interest of our child, what should I do?
TLDR: I have the power to contest my ex's desire to move to be with his now fiance because his job is remote.
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