2021.12.04 17:52 moonshineandmetal My mother would like a word with the creator of this meme.
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2021.12.04 17:52 itfluffeh How to reinforce personal boundaries without hurting someone's feelings?
I work at a grocery store. It's my first job (environmental changes do wonders for mental health!) and I've not even been there 2 whole months yet. Surprisingly, it's been alright for my mental health because while I interact with a lot of people, the interactions are fleeting and there haven't been many (thus far) that have negatively haunted me for being my fault. My coworkers are great, too, and I even don't mind lightly chatting with them every now and then during slow times.
The problem comes in one coworker I have. They're 10+ years older than me, lonely, and have been kinda clinging to interactions (platonically). Every time they've seen me around the store, they've made an endeavor to chat. Multiple times a day. I'm not a chatty person or a good conversationalist; it's usually just me listening, but for better or worse, it worked for them I guess. Because I fear disappointing others, I have an extremely hard time saying no, especially when I feel bad for whoever's asking. So I ended up going out to lunch with them. It wasn't super terrible or anything - they're not a terrible person - but even during the outing I felt desperate to have it end immediately so I could avoid getting "closer". But now I practically know their life story (they don't know mine and I'm keeping it that way), and they're of course hoping to continue hanging out like that. They've even called me at random, because they're too behind on technology to text.
I regret agreeing to lunch. Work is bearable and good because of the distance I have with others. My work persona isn't my natural self, and it's comfortable that way. But the closer friendship that this coworker seems to want from me has started kicking up all my mental alarms and anxiety, and I'm not entirely sure how to approach distancing all this now that it's already gotten to the point where they want to make plans and go out more, especially because I'm just as awful with rejecting someone with good intentions as I am dealing with rejection itself. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any suggestions on how to handle it?
tldr; My coworker wants to be out-of-work friends and it's too much for me, but I don't want to hurt their feelings in harsh distancing, either. Help?
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2021.12.04 17:52 NNJay Saw some cools one today during a Christmas parade
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2021.12.04 17:52 Necessary-Belt963 D̴͔͗å̷͙͚̐͝v̷̦̫̒e̴̡̥̬̯͎̦̣̪̗͋̆̄͋̀̇̄͑̇ ̶̧͔̳͓̞͉̟̗̥̤͇̒́̎͝a̷̲̘͙̬̼̦͍̭̜̣̔̃̉̀̀̃̍͜n̴̘͛̏͊͂́͗͗̚ḍ̸̲̣̱̰̪̣̉̇̉͑̈́̚͠͝ ̷̧̲̜̂b̵̩̲̊́̔̽͗a̵̧̛̛̳̻͚̩̹̱̼̗͒́̍̀̀͋̍̑̋m̴̢̮̻̜̀b̸̟̞̮̻͖͍̈́ì̷̡̬̜̞̣̪͉̀͒̅͛̋̂͝
2021.12.04 17:52 RandomFactoid69 Mega Steelix
2021.12.04 17:52 Shuyottori_v Elder Dragon Blood MHWXB1
2021.12.04 17:52 Castigerian KoTC Optimized Minimap Basic-Advanced Major Feature Update
2021.12.04 17:52 Aggravating-Bell-884 I need to get my girl an xmas present, what method is best for Pandora?? And do you need past orders
2021.12.04 17:52 Wild_Calligrapher281 Verías a staryuuki aunque se volviera completamente vtuber? (Quisiera saber la opinión sobre todo de sus seguidores)
2021.12.04 17:52 RacheyTea Seeking advice for rotted wood on basement window
New homeowner here of a century home. I went to go winterize the basement windows with some foam and discovered significant rot at the base of one window. I cleared out the old wood chunks and dirt and now there is a void. Any advice on how to restructure this gap?
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2021.12.04 17:52 spoetnikspock we are getting a kitten, and I named him bartels. (the name sounds worse in English)
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2021.12.04 17:52 Reach-for-the-sky_15 Spain approves new law recognizing animals as ‘sentient beings’
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2021.12.04 17:52 BundleofBrew *Insert bad joke.*
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2021.12.04 17:52 timid-buck Anyone other nonbinary people who took their transition in too binary of a direction?
I love the effects T has given me, I love being androgynous, and I loved binding and how it made me feel (besides my rib and spine alignment), but going completely flat was not what I needed, and now almost 6 months from recovery my brain feels about as flat as my chest. I'm in the process of finding a gender therapist who can help me navigate this as well as help me get implants in a way my insurance will pay for (lol), but I just need some support, and I've been posting here a lot because it helps to hear from other enby people who made a mistake but still feel pretty strong that they're enby. I think ultimately what I needed were breasts I could flatten with a sports bra or through layering, but that I could show off when I wanted to, aka a reduction. Now I no longer have this option, my nips have lost their erotic sensation, and I have a GIGANTIC scar on my chest, I'm really struggling ~6 months after surgery.
When my OCD is under control tbh I don't have any regrets about any part of my transition, but I had a rough patch with my meds that made me re-analyze what parts of my OCD were unfounded and what was actually founded and just being exacerbated by it.
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2021.12.04 17:52 CaseBody Tall and proud stands Éomer! The first of the Rohirrim we meet in our story, a great warrior and Third Marshal of the Riddermark. Feast your eyes upon him, but don't look too close: his eyes are as piercing as his spear!
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2021.12.04 17:52 gattaca_now Question about the ETH and DAPPs
Ok, I wish to understand if DAPPs must use ETH to run. For example, can someone create a dapp that is 100% free to use, like open source software is free to use, and the only time that ETH is required is when the code is registered onto the blockchain? (I'm assuming that's how it works).
Or a more specific example, if I wish to code a game and make it completely free, is there a need for ETH at any stage of the process? Must an end-user have ETH in their wallet to get into the game and play it, for example?
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2021.12.04 17:52 thebettercreativity Favorite Skilet song?
2021.12.04 17:51 prettypressonnails Disgusting.
2021.12.04 17:51 ShaggyRS6 What Would You Do $4k Budget? Stellina or?
So i have been wanting to get into this hobby for a while. My self confessed issue is all my hobbies turn into casual things and I really never concentrate on anything for that long. So I was wondering, if my budget was $4k, should I get the Stellina or, put the money elsewhere? Just as an FYI I do own a Sony A7R IV, so that may give me a good start on a non Stellina route. Just wondered what your thoughts are. I am interested in deep space photography and really dont have very much interest in planets.
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2021.12.04 17:51 Kevin_sparky Tell me what you all know about TMA 2?
So I was gifted about 4+ grams a few years back sealed in a glass test tube. Did research of course on it using the interwebs and felt the descriptions were not what I am generally looking for in a psychedelic. However now I am beginning to get curious. Thanks in advance
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2021.12.04 17:51 -ssunshinee- Me [f24] and my best friend [m33] are pretty much in a relationship but he wants to be free and doesn't want to label it, and I don't know if that's working for me.
So a little insight on how we met;
I'm a Dutch girl living in Austria for a few years now and he has moved here from England. We have met 1,5 years ago and have been pretty much inseparable for this whole time. As in day and night.
I work in gastronomy and he plays in a band so because of corona and the lockdown we have been out of work for months so we have a lot of time on our hands.
Since a couple of months we started to have sex as well wich probably didn't help into making things easier.
He is a very good looking guy with amazing people skills, he is one of those people that gets a party started and doesn't go unnoticed in a crowd. Obviously because of that he gets a lot of attention from girls wich he loves. And he loves having sex.
I don't think this ever bothered me very much though I'm also not cheering it on. But lately it's starting to get to me. Yesterday he told me that there's a girl coming over to stay with him for the whole weekend. Wich means I won't see him the whole weekend because she is there. And it makes me feel like I'm being replaced, I've addressed this feeling towards him to wich his answer ofcourse was that that wasn't going to happen. Jealousy is an emotion that I'm not very familiar with and I have to say I hate it.
I've told him today that I don't think I'm strong and confident enough to stay in this "friendship" with him but he doesn't want to accept that and if I'm being honest I don't want to lose him either.
I just don't know if we can find a way that will work for the both of us, I guess that I just want to know if anyone has gone through a similar situation as me and how they solved it.
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2021.12.04 17:51 Felicia663 I got kicked from yandere squad?
2021.12.04 17:51 Empty-Option2291 This is awful
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2021.12.04 17:51 OGOJI Relapsed after 34 days
Last night I read a post on this subreddit that triggered me to look up stuff and peek. I didn’t even have to touch myself to cum (it didn’t even feel as amazing as I expected, my balls hurted). It’s my fault. I wish I knew whether I really want to do this or not… I asked for help but I guess it’s something you have to figure out for yourself. I was gonna go the 90days, because I started working out during this so that was a clear benefit to me. Then I fapped this morning. But I still worked out today? I’m not beating myself up, because I won NNN. But I now have new found respect for those who relapsed and those who can do 90+ days. I’m still confused about things…
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2021.12.04 17:51 Kittycat388 One of my favorite pics I ever took of myself 🥰 what do you think about it? [F22]
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