2022.01.27 11:58 mldewer Just looking for some advice going forwards
My apologies in advance for formatting I am on mobile.
I met a girl back in September we hit it off very well we both have a lot of things in common, we communicate very easily, and things are just great in general whenever we're hanging out we have great chemistry in bed etc.
She does have cptsd and certain things trigger her but she also says that being around me also helps keep her calm and regulated and grounds her when she feels dissociated or triggered.
Now when we first met I was still talking to my ex but purely as platonic friends and had been for several months at this point. She mentioned that it concerned her and that if we were to pursue anything seriously that I would have to cut ties with my ex.
She's been very wishy-washy and back and forth and hot and cold about a relationship as she's not sure if she's quite ready for it due to mental health issues and past trauma, so I'm unsure about how confident I am in cutting off a good platonic friendship for something so hot and cold, but I am definitely willing to give it a solid chance and an honest effort.
Fast forward a couple weeks I told her that me and my ex were no longer going to be talking, she was happy with that, all was well.
Fast forward another two weeks or so and my ex called me, I didn't answer the phone, but sent her a message telling her I was at work.
While hanging out with this girl last night she saw that I had sent a message to my ex recently, and then last night just turned into a big argument about how she's upset and doesn't believe me or trust me, so I drove her home and that ended the night.
This morning she sent me a text saying that I kind of broke her heart and she doesn't want anything to do with it and to please leave her alone basically.
My dilemma is I don't know what to do moving forward because I do actually really care about this girl and she's also expressed that she really cares about me we've both already said that we love each other numerous times.
I'm hoping this is all going to blow over and she'll reach out to me in a couple days, but as of this morning I've apologized profusely told her how upset I am with myself for having caused her this type of pain and to feel this way, and she says she forgives me but she doesn't want to get involved if I'm still holding onto my past.
How can I convince this girl that I am honestly over my ex and she is the only person that I genuinely care about, I'm the only person that I have eyes for?
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2022.01.27 11:58 mavcorner What coins should one buy during the dip?
When the dip comes, people advise that crypto enthusiasts should purchased coins during the dip. What coins do you think people should buy? How should they know if a coin is worthy of buying, and if it will increase in value once the market recovers?
Let's be Frank, some coins have been dipping for a long time, and may continue to dip even when the market recovers and a bull run occurs. We know some of them. Their value crashed and never rose again.
Back to the question. How should someone know the coins to buy? Should they check the use cases, team information, leadership thoughts on the coin from highly performing traders on the likes of Tycoon.io, or read the whitepaper?
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2022.01.27 11:58 Zell-GTR Baguette aims to complete "unfinished business" with Nissan
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2022.01.27 11:58 ShadowTH277 What do you consider to be a rich person?
2022.01.27 11:58 pjs32000 USMNT soccer restaurant/bar near Sandy?
There's a world cup qualifier match tonight and I'm in town for a short time, was hoping to find a place to watch. After searching most recommended soccer bars seem to be farther north, ideally I was hoping to find something to the south. Would Slackwater pizza have it on?
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2022.01.27 11:58 CRYPTOsauceNews After Putin Flips On Crypto Stance, Russian Central Bank Trials Digital Ruble With 12 Institutions
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2022.01.27 11:58 AncientProduct Wireless charging + wired Apple Carplay
I will soon receive a second hand Peugeot 5008 with wireless charger and Apple Carplay. For Apple Carplay the phone needs to be wired and, ideally, I would like to keep it where the wireless charger is. I am worried that simultaneous wireless and wired charging may cause issues like overheating. Anyone has any experience with this?
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2022.01.27 11:58 ismaithliomamberleaf What’s the craic with all the helicopters ??
2022.01.27 11:58 Ri_gatoni Do you all keep every comb that comes with each doll or just one?
I'm thinking of donating, selling, or even throwing away the combs. Human combs work just for me, so it is just a waste to keep the combs around.
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2022.01.27 11:58 etherealempire I looked at my arm and there was a lump tat looked like a blister but was squishy and filled with fluid, I popped it and it left a small gap in my arm. This is 2 days later the gap has scabbed over but its red and the skin around feels firm. It hurts when I touch or move my arm. I live in the UK !
2022.01.27 11:58 Alex_Avetisyan Please help me solve this problem. This message constantly appears.
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2022.01.27 11:58 soyourlife tried to make more relatable content
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2022.01.27 11:58 Numerous-Bat-1914 GW merit scholarships?
Has anyone who has been accepted to GW received email notification about merit scholarships? On GW's website it says accepted students will receive scholarships if they have been accepted within 3 business weeks of admission.
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2022.01.27 11:58 Happy_Swordfish8052 Rp?
2022.01.27 11:58 bleuskygriffin I think I’m a compulsive liar
I (F18) have always had a habit for lying about small details in conversations and such since I was young, like adding extra words and cursing to keep it spicy. It’s never really affected anything for me personally, until I got into a long distance relationship. I’ll tell him (M20) about conversations I’ve had at work and such, and sometimes he’d call me out on them and instead of fessing up I just go into a state of shock.
I don’t think I’m a compulsive liar, but I personally don’t know how to describe it. I don’t know how to bring it up to him without him thinking I’ve lied about everything.
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2022.01.27 11:58 Evnat13 Gamer friends
Hi everyone :) this is my first post on here. I'm bi just looking to make friends, I don't have many gamer friends if anyone wants to chat or game. I mainly play on Switch, sometimes on PS5. I love playing on ACNH, Resident Evil, Zelda, Stawdew Valley.
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2022.01.27 11:58 FaithInStrangers94 Sneaky motherfucker
I matched with a cute girl, she’s refreshingly invested in having a good conversation (that should’ve been my first red flag tbh) and sure enough I check her profile and she’s “updated” her profile photos with more recent ones in which she has dark hair and has gained a significant amount of weight - Ifs clearly the same person but not nearly as attractive and I wouldn’t have swiped on her if she looked like that.
I’m guessing this is how she goes fishing for guys.
I took the bait but she didn’t reel me in
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2022.01.27 11:58 tc0843 Not giving away my Doodorie for anything less than 1 ETH
2022.01.27 11:58 confused_soul_7123 Confused about red flags
I (28m) have known this guy(33) for a year. After just one conversation(we were doing some puzzles and programming), he became so infatuated with me. (I heard that he lovess smart people and where he is working, he pampers the mentee he has just because he is smart. ). He doesn't know me at all. But since then he helped me in every problem I have faced, there were so many acts of services, but no attempts at talking to me at all. He is extremely caring and protective and very giggly like a child around me. He is very smart and has veryy high emotional intelligence. I went through embarassing situations when I first met him and he was so sad for me and did everything he can to get me out of them. But also it felt like he kinda became ashamed(very condescending expressions) and couldn't handle those situations along with me which eroded my self esteem.
He was angry and very defensive at first when I tried to talk to him. Then when he lost so many chances, he left his ego(he is still very much egoistic) and started replying to me well. But never made a direct attempt at expressing interest. Everything in conversations is way too subtle. My friends called me mad for believing in someone like him. He never left a chance for me to confront him. It kind of feels like I don't have a choice of saying NO. It felt like it has to be a yes or nothing from me.He was extremely sad which made me very guilty but even then there was no direct interest when I tried to talk to him.
According to his friends, he is controlling and says or nags that he is always right and he is very rude with them. But somehow, he is veryy kind with me and even his voice changes when he talks to me. He is kind of punishy. Not sure how to put this, he punishes people who do wrong and the punishment is beyond normal. It feels like he wants to put the people in right place when anything goes wrong. But I also saw him being very kind to people who are in need. He gets too defensive when he is criticized and he gets hurt a lot when he does a mistake.
But I never knew this side of him. He never showed me any of this.
He is extremely kind and empathetic in some situations. He is also very rude and unempathetic when punishing people. He shows so much of love towards me very indirectly but way too insecure to show anything directly.. sometimes it feels unreal and feels like my imagination. Also he speaks so subtle, it's very hard to know whether he means what he is saying.
I had an abusive friend(who gaslighted me and made me believe in some other reality for 2 years) and a colleague from work. I have a narcissistic father who only cares about himself. His way of asking us to show love is "to ask to do things which we do not like or which would spoil our life because we love him". I also found out that my brother had changed for good like my father and there is no coming back.
I do have severe anxiety and mild depression and also because of all the trauma from my brother, father and best friend, I don't want to have new emotional scars from this "guy". He did one thing which made me very suspicious. He was asking for something(a help) which he knows I have problem doing it. He was persuading me, subtly forcing me and he didn't even specify what his reason was. It's like I have to do it to show that I love him(like my father). Even with all these things, his immense caring, understanding and intelligence(even his sadness) is making it very hard for me to forget him. Is this my weakness or am I being just a normal being who would like to give a chance?
TL DR: Guy is extremely caring, protective and kind but also seems suspicious. Is it my attachment with him that is making me ignore all the red flags and pursue him or am I worried too much. Excuse me for my grammar.
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2022.01.27 11:58 Nihilist911 🇺🇸It looks like it's time to remember where the main US military facilities are located in the world. Lots of maps for your consideration.
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2022.01.27 11:58 Green-eyedkitty It's a good day 😊
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2022.01.27 11:58 stfnos [Discussion] What can I do with iPad Mini?
I got an iPad Mini (A1432, I believe that is the first iPad Mini) and it is in a pretty good condition. It is running on iOS 9 and I was planning on using the iPad for navigation and listening to music in the car or just for some media consumption, but a lot off apps require higher version (Google Maps, Netflix, etc.).
It says in the Tips app that iOS 10 is available but I can't update the iPad on Settings. So what can I do with the iPad in this current state? Also, will jailbreaking it be better for my case?
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2022.01.27 11:58 Phoenixgamer737 Brand New SMP!
Hello bored people here is your favourite SMP, CITY SMP s1!
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2022.01.27 11:58 Metazolid [FH5] [H] Trueno [W] 2M Credits
With the right timing, I can get a Trueno your way. As long as this post is up, I still have one lined up for you.
Anything below 1.1M is more likely fall into the hands of other snipers. That being said; this sale is meant for those who actually want a Trueno to own it, not just for resale.
Send me a DM here or via Discord:
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2022.01.27 11:58 Ravioli4u What's SHE Up To Now Day 1459? Environment...New Lease On Life?