2022.01.20 01:53 luciferrari420 Garth is a Maine Coon mix but is 100% cuteness. He hopes to become a cat model someday
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2022.01.20 01:53 Legitimate_Nature940 Are gaming laptops reliable and future proof? Will this last me a couple of years without losing performance?
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2022.01.20 01:53 Individual_Ad9907 Dose the blah feeling go away
I’m over a year sober now and have no intention of ever drinking again. Sobriety has improved my life immensely but I’m always in a state of blah. I almost never feel excitement and everything seems a little dull. I have revisited as many of the activities I loved sober as I could. I got some enjoyment but nothing like I remember. I’m not sad and I take antidepressants and go to therapy. I’m I just being impatient. I had a problem with alcohol for almost 17 years and 10 of those were hard core. I’m just wondering if I can just wait longer for those good feelings to come back or do I need to figure out a completely different way to think and live.
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2022.01.20 01:53 Bgoodfinger Made this today and I think it turned out pretty well. Hope you guys like it!
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2022.01.20 01:53 69lon90 I NEED YOUR ADVICE
I'm a picker in OGP and I'm the one that does 60% of the work. My hard-working co-workers don't work a lot (because they have another job), so most of the time I get stuck with the lazy staffs. They only pick ambient, chilled, and frozen. When there are only oversized, general, GMD,... some of them suddenly disappear, some of them do the stuff they are not supposed to do. They will do anything to take ambient, chilled,... pick walks from me and let me do the rest. I've talked to my team lead and my store manager but they didn't give a damn. I don't want to quit, what should I do now?
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2022.01.20 01:53 tribeebeenie Objective write out of current situation
I just wanted to get this story out and hear from others. I wrote down an objective small story of my marriage from the beginning. Being completely honest about my role and my mistakes to where I am today. Maybe it will help me be more clear about what decision I need to make next.
She met him on a dating app. He didn’t seem that into her so she kind of discounted him at first. They eventually went on a date (which he later admitted he didn’t think was a date) and found that they were attracted to each other! Plus they had huge amount of physical and sexual chemistry. They spent a lot of time together from then on and moved in together about 3-4 months into dating.
During the whole first year they spent a lot of time with her friends and sometimes his friends. They would go bar hopping or partying which included molly, drinking, and smoking weed. She occasionally did cocaine and felt guilty after, but it didn’t happen often. He hated how much she drank mostly. She finished her masters degree during their first summer together.
He wasn’t paying his rent consistently so his roommate preferred that he move out if he wasn’t usually there anyway. They combined finances about 6 months in and started saving to move out of state, something she had wanted to do before the relationship started and he told her he wanted to go too. She had reservations about this and worried they were moving too fast. He reassured her that this is what he wants and that he was bad with money anyway.
They successfully saved and moved out of state to be near her sister and lived in a house her family owned. They were still in the honeymoon phase until now. Before moving, she had proposed to him privately on Christmas morning of 2017 by giving him a ring and telling him that she was willing to marry him if he wanted to propose. Basically the green light that she was open to it. They had talked about this before. She had never considered getting married to anyone after her 1st marriage. She told him she wanted to be engaged in the next year and have a long engagement if that is what he also wanted to do.
She picked out, saved, and paid for half of the ring she wanted. She may have been a bit pushy. It may have been a mistake. She was excited. He surprised her and proposed 5 months later in Hawaii with the ring in spring 2018.
After the proposal they started to have unhealthy conflict, involving yelling, swearing, hurtful words and vows to break up or leave each other. Unfair fighting. He would throw things and leave the house for hours. They eventually would come back together and make up. They had a couple fights like this in the first year but it had now became much more frequent and explosive. He would be inconsolable and unapproachable for days.
They still got married in fall of 2019. She had told herself it was the stress of an engagement and money problems. Then in 2020 Covid happened. His close aunt and cousin passed away. His depression worsened. This is the time when he went so far as to self harm by punching himself repeatedly or destroying her bookshelf to pieces (breaking his hand) during conflict with her.
She felt like she didn’t have a voice to say anything without a large dysfunctional fight or reaction from him. She got back into individual therapy and also implemented anger management strategies to control her part of the conflict more often.
She had already started to identify that swearing and yelling during an argument is a boundary she is not okay with being crossed. She had stopped contributing to the dysfunctional pattern of fighting after he confided in her about how he feels when she swears at him. She didn’t want him to feel that way.
She began to set boundaries with him. 1. That he is not permitted to yell or swear at her or she will leave the situation. He continued to be unable to manage his anger or temper. He began therapy for a few months before they moved back to Utah to get him closer to friends and family. After moving he didn’t get another therapist.
She got sober from alcohol the month she moved back to to their home state. She then got sober from weed and all substance on her birthday in the fall of 2021. She started seeing a therapist again. He had continued to be unable to manage his temper or fight fairly. He would cuss at her, yell, mock her, and throw things around loudly especially when she would leave the room to uphold her boundaries. He still hadn’t made much effort to see an individual therapist like she asked.
She wasn’t perfect of course. There were a couple times that she held on too tightly when he would try to storm out of the home. Like on their 2nd wedding anniversary. He continued the pattern of verbal abuse or leaving the house for unknown periods of time. He would then avoid her for days if he didn’t yell. sometimes he did both. He often left to drink at the bar alone. Nothing was ever resolved.
She didn’t feel like she had a voice and was always walking on eggshells. He was not a “morning person.” He “needs his coffee, his weed, his nicotine.” He would leave to go to the bar when upset with her for bringing up concerns.
She insisted on couples therapy and they started couples therapy for the second time in fall of 2021. (They had done premarital counseling). She had set a boundary a couple months after moving home that she needed him to see a therapist about his anger management and fighting behaviors. They knew that they had come from severe trauma from a childhood of abuse. She knew this was needed if they were going to have a healthy relationship or consider starting a family at all.
He continued to put off or ignore her clear boundaries and requests to find a therapist for months. Eventually their couples therapist identified a colleague who could see him, he just needed to call to schedule. He continued to say he would call, and didn’t for 2.5 weeks. By then they were no longer taking clients.
He always has excuses or reasons to not follow through on his word to respect her boundaries to continue the relationship in a healthy way for all involved. When she would bring up the inconsistency he would avoid her for days and go to the bar.
She has now been sober from all substances for 5 months and is just starting to clearly see the pattern of him not taking steps to manage his own side of the unfair fighting pattern.
She did not want this pattern to continue or for it to be a model for her future children. She noticed the unfair emotional and actual weight of the relationship she has been carrying on her own for over 2 years. She paid all the bills, has to constantly remind him of his part of chores, did the majority of the dishes and cooking. She didn’t feel comfortable bringing these concerns up to him since the unhealthy fighting he engaged in would be a hassle.
She just wanted a healthy relationship and to have open communication. Or nothing at all. She feels unsupported in her life and early sobriety. Her eyes are opened to all the things in her relationship she could no longer ignore without booze and weed hazing her vision. They’re lease is up in four months and she wonders if it’s time to set the final boundary there is in a relationship.
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2022.01.20 01:53 ZDemonGaming Books?!
Does anyone know if any books for someone beginning mediation and better self care. I am trying to get a better grasp on who I am. And understand what meditation really can do.
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2022.01.20 01:53 JoeyJoJoJrShabadoo98 Clown World.
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2022.01.20 01:53 DarthVapar I can’t find a place to live
Where I live, rent is EXTREMELY HIGH. you can’t even get a room for $800 a month. I have no idea what to do. I cannot afford to relocate. I’m out of options here
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2022.01.20 01:53 Aarujee and that's a fact
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2022.01.20 01:53 GlobalPokerSites Nominees for Global Poker Awards Announced
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2022.01.20 01:53 pulltoy21 I love this guy! 😂😂😂 Wkhs! $17.98 would be a nice open indeed. 😂
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2022.01.20 01:53 za_snake_guy Common Egg-eater (Dasypeltis scabra) from the Western Cape, South Africa. Harmless.
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2022.01.20 01:52 Explore411 subtitle box width?
2022.01.20 01:52 Difficult_Row_721 Market trend surveys in various fields are on sale, and it is said that NNOX with 0 sales is a key player for artificial intelligence in medical diagnosis.since it is amazing that it is recognized by the world ...
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2022.01.20 01:52 Ill-Lawyer-7971 When 🇹🇷Turkey will be join 🇪🇺EU?
2022.01.20 01:52 Realistic-Kick4549 #Jagatguru #सत_भक्ति_संदेश अधिक जानकारी के लिए देखें Sant Rampal Ji Maharaj👇 Live Nepal TV_6AM Daily !
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2022.01.20 01:52 Sad_Tackle_3192 Help with my new pinstripe Calathea I have all south facing windows with nothing really blocking the sun but I put it in the bathroom with only one skylight to try to up the humidity. Many of the leaves are shriveled up and dead. Only owned for two ish weeks
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2022.01.20 01:52 tyleeeer Server de discord de ticos para ticos
Buenas noches gente! Recien un compa hizo un servidor dedicado a la comunidad tica, es bien activo y ya tenemos cerca de 40 miembros y nos encantaria tenerlos ahi ya que la mayoria ya vienen de este subreddit.
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2022.01.20 01:52 ami_nil1987 VALUES is not a stablecoin
VALUES is not a stablecoin. Rather, VALUES aspires to become an algorithmic reserve currency backed by other decentralized assets. Similar to the idea of the gold standard, VALUES provides free floating value its users can always fall back on, simply because of the fractional treasury reserves VALUES draws its intrinsic value from.
Staking and bonding are considered beneficial to the protocol, while selling is considered detrimental. Staking and selling will also cause a price move, while bonding does not (we consider buying $VALUES from the market as a prerequisite of staking, thus causing a price move). If both actions are beneficial, the actor who moves price also gets half of the benefit (+1). If both actions are contradictory, the bad actor who moves price gets half of the benefit (+1), while the good actor who moves price gets half of the downside (-1). If both actions are detrimental, which implies both actors are selling, they both get half of the downside (-1).
#polygon #crypto #cryptocurrency #valuesfinance
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2022.01.20 01:52 Shermsssss funny oc man i made
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2022.01.20 01:52 perfectkafta Mortgage Interest Rates
Hello beautiful people. I bought my house in Eastern Ontario February 2020 for $450,000 (single home). Just curious, I got a 5 year fixed rate for 2.69%. I see lenders offering rates way below that. Is it possible to break the mortgage and re-finance at a lower rate? Is it worth it in your humble opinion?
Thank you for your time.
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2022.01.20 01:52 Acedefiorg #ACETOKEN #NEXTMOONCOIN #INTERSTELLAR #EV #JUSTACEIT #NOFOMO #DONTGETLEFTBEHIND
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2022.01.20 01:52 Jasondagoat35 HMU for the links
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2022.01.20 01:52 scales82 Selective upstream DNS based on client MAC
Im trying to figure out is it possible in PiHole to assign an upstream dns to a client based on their MAC address? Id like to have kids etc using a more family-friendly DNS server, whilst giving myself and my wife access to anything/everything. Pihole is my DHCP server.
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